I keep hearing this everywhere I go. As a curvy woman myself, I want to throw my fist in the air and scream, "hells, yeah!"
On the otherhand, I also like girls, so what I find attractive confuses me....
I love girls of all shapes and sizes. For a while, I was on a skinny girl kick; I just couldn't find many curvier girls sexy.
After searching, I found quite a few cute and curvy girls.
Now as I'm laying in bed and writing this from my cellular device, I realize what it is, and I couldn't wait to blog about it later... lol.
I, of course, realized that these girls all had gorgeous faces, first of all. The problem is, there are a lot of cute-faced girls that I am not attracted to at all..
I also realized that I was going for older women. Older than me, but still quite young, of course. Hmm.. but that can't be what I'm attracted to.
Then it clicked. I love confidence in a woman. Yeah, you might /facepalm me for that one, but it isn't as obvious as it seems. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin, that is so fucking sexy! And it was then that I realized why real men think real women have curves. It's because they love a woman who's curvy and confident with what isn't considered aesthetically ideal by the media's standard (despite the evolutionary attraction, which a 0.7 hip to waist ratio is most attractive)
But, who knows, I could be totally misreading dudes.
Meh, in my mind, Real Women Have Confidence. (And I find that irresistable.)
So, my blog-readers.... you also know what I think about in bed. (O.o) hahahah
Confidence is sexy, but for me it only applies to the curvy (read: Rubenesque). Once we get into obese territory, I see confidence as a facade for lack of healthy lifestyle. As a formerly obese individual, I reserve the right to criticize. :P
ReplyDeleteMaybe so, but I've found that I like curvier women than me a lot of times. If someone has a healthy lifestyle and is a bit larger, that's okay.
ReplyDeleteOne question though, would you consider me Rubenesque?